After sustaining life threatening injuries in a car accident on October 12, 1986 at the age of 18 (the power and grace of God was very evident), I survived a traumatic brain injury (TBI) and a hemorrhagic or bleeding stroke which left me initially paralyzed in both left arm and leg. I am so blessed to recover from extensive physical, cognitive and emotional limitations through tremendous hard work, determination, multiple miracles and answers to prayer. Fortunately, I have been able to achieve the best me possible with several continued adaptations to complete an occupational therapy BS degree, marry, raise a family while working full time. Now retired (due to worsening balance and strength), I remain active going to a gym, taking swim classes, meeting with 2 brain injury support groups, volunteer with the special needs ministry at my local church. These are my calling to serve, relate to, and connect with others during this life-long recovery.

I have always given God the credit for my life and life-long recovery. Over the past several years, I have become to realize how much God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit have carried me through the difficult times, have celebrated with me the joyous life moments and just walked with me in my daily life. I’m still trying to grow closer with Him.

Connecting with the Niekro Foundation has benefitted me because I have gained wonderful printed information on the recovery process, and other positive and educational information from the Niekro Foundation for members of the Brain Injury Support group I co-lead.

My words of hope and advice for others are:

• Never, Never, Not Ever Give Up.
• Start small in setting goals to work towards the larger ones.
• Celebrate the little things/achievements. They build on each other to help you reach the big goals. Keep a calendar of every big event achieved AND find a little something new you can do or do better every day initially and then every week or month to track your progress.
• Find a brain injury support group near you or find a virtual one (Zoom) that usually meet monthly. You need to be with others that have “been there” and truly understand what you feel. These are good for family, friends, caregivers or whoever as well. Check your state organization for whatever diagnosis to find these groups.